SOME PROBLEMS FACED BY FAMILIES AND THEIR SOLUTION IDEAS
There is no doubt that some times families have to go through some problems and some families face these problems strongly but some families get out of this trouble difficulty. So question is, where the difference lies? what is that special thing which the first family do and it survive that trouble with the smile on face, on the other hand, the second family finds it difficult to handle the situation? Its answer lies in the roots of a problem. We will now discuss these problems and will try to analyse it because understanding the problem root causes in depth is the only key to overcome your problems. For example, a swimmer can swim better than normal people because he knows how to make perfect postures and utilise the breadth during the swimming and he will swim for a long time than a normal person. So understanding the format and cause of the origin of a problem becomes necessary for us to deal with every unfavourable situation.
Let's see some problems occur in family and ideas to handle it peacefully:
You need to understand what is the nature of alcoholic person first, so that you can break some of your expectations regarding that person, because it will make you more easy to handle that person and you will not get demoralised as you already know this will happen. Let's see what alcoholic person do but don't know the bad effects of it deeply. Alcoholic person don't care about its partner as much, Best thing is to do deal with this situation is to know why the person is doing this. The reasons can be not reaching to goals of his/her life, may be hidden expectations related to family or children which are not happening his/her way, or mental illness or reading hatefull articles which most people fails to figure out whether the given article can change our peace of mind if we read some hatefull material, in today's world media is also responsible for making common peoples uncomfortable by showing some crimes happening across different countries on daily basis.Try to make believe alcoholic person that whatever happens is for good reason, if he failed make him believe that humans do mistake, no one is perfect and life is too short to see what happend behind, say him no one cares for anyone so you should also not care about anything which may hurted you ( ITS LIKE HANDLING A UNSTABLE CHILD BUT KEEP PUTTING GOOD THINGS IN HIS MIND CAREFULLY AND SMARTLY SO THAT HE DONT GET IRRITAED BUT START LISTENING TO YOU CAREFULLY,make him believe by saying these things again and again every time and motivate him to live a different life together.
There are some other problems happens in familiy such as:
Separation and Divorce
I can't say much about it, because these things happen very rarely and cases are mostly who don't truely love each other and just married for money or sex. We need to understand that, for a life time happy family you must invest your more time on who really loves you and your heart from his/her heart, not for your body or money. In these relations separation and divorce cases are 0 %.
Overprotective parents can also make trouble in family environment. You have to give your children access to the things which they like or their hobby to do, it will make them more creative.
There are also some parents who fight, these parents need to understand one fact deeply that it will create negative effect in their children mind and love link will slip out from their brain and when they will grow, they will also act like same with there partners and will live a trouble life.
I just want to say be positive towards life, God dont give everything to anyone, so be happy whatever you have and say to yourself am happy and comfortable with whatever i have right now, nothing else matter to me.